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May 6, 2012, No comments

i carry your heart with me, by e.e. cummings is a favorite wedding poem for many.   In fact, some time ago, a favorite bride surprised her groom by reading the …

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An Excerpt from “A Gift from the Sea”

April 15, 2012, No comments

The mother of a recent groom introduced me to this particular passage from Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s “A Gift from the Sea.”  It is a ...

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Vows for Your Perfect Day

March 26, 2012, No comments

The emotional crescendo of the wedding is always the vows.  So, naturally brides and grooms may have some anxiety in choosing exactly the right words ...

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Your Wedding Handbook

March 22, 2012, No comments

When working with couples–even those who have attended many weddings–they are confused about “where to start” in conceptualizi ...

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    Unexpected Love Songs
    March 18, 2012, No comments

    I have noticed a trend among recent brides and grooms that may serve as inspiration for those thinking about their wedding ceremonies.  Recent couples have turned to popular song lyrics ...

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    At Last…
    January 21, 2012, No comments

    From time-to-time couples want an “element of surprise” in their wedding.   One recent couple asked a beloved friend to do a reading during the ceremony….something that she selected, but they ...

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    Blessing for a Marriage
    January 15, 2012, No comments

    I have been honored to work with many gay couples since the passage of New York’s Marriage Equality Law this past summer.   Most of these couples have been partnered for ...

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    “Sonnet XVII” by Pablo Neruda
    December 26, 2011, No comments

    I don’t love you as if you were the salt-rose, topaz or arrow of carnations that propagate fire: I love you as certain dark things are loved,  secretly, between the ...

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    What We Wish for You
    November 19, 2011, No comments

    This poem, introduced to me by a recent couple that I married, is a perfect closing wish for a ceremony script.  In this particular wedding, the reading was shared by ...

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    Words of Wisdom from Wendell Berry
    October 28, 2011, No comments

      Wendell Berry is the kind of person we all want to have in our lives.  He reminds me of Thomas Jefferson…..wise, reflective, philosophical, communitarian, and an advocate for the ...